Try to remember: You may not be "conventionally" good-looking according society's unreal standards (God know I'm not!), but I honestly truly do believe that no matter how you may look, there's 100% at least someone out there who wholeheartedly believes that you are gorgeous to them.
Man it's so easy to forget that for a lot of people out there, just the act of simply trying to navigate growing up can be an absolute nightmare 😔
It's incredibly sad that so many people end up thinking like this, whether due to bullying, personal self-esteem issues, body dysmorphia, etc., sometimes realizing too late that they were beautiful before surgery and now they're stuck with the changes, realizing it but then feeling like now they have no choice but to get more & more surgeries throughout your life, or the worst imo, never realizing that they're beautiful despite getting all the surgeries they have done.
If everyone on earth was "conventionally" gorgeous, our species would be so dreadfully boring to look at.
Omg i really want females to understand that these surgeries will not secure a man for you . If anything when the man realise you’ve done a surgery the only thing that runs through his mind is « she’s fake plastic « so it won’t last
That part at the end was more about the pain meds (opiates probably) than it was about the surgery itself, but yeah. This is sad all around. That one lady is gonna be hideous by the time she reaches old age.
How ironic, westerners are having surgery to remove the crease and Asians are doing it to put the crease back in. Imo, these parents need to be in therapy. This was so freaking sad and very difficult to watch.
I've never understood white people insist on mutilating themselves in pursuit of fake beauty. It's just a waste of money and it makes you look worse than you did before nine out of 10 times. Society has become stupid!
Thats so sad . And everyone trying to be American. Just imagine a world were every o e looks the same . How horrible will it be ….no more culture and its happening
Obviously a lot of stuff the mother said is absolutely awful and she's clearly instilling awful thoughts into her child which is probably going to affect her a lot, if it isn't already. But when she said "you can't get surgery to fix a bad personality" it really hit me deep because like, no you can't but raising your child right and instilling confidence, kindness e.c.t in them will make sure that isn't an issue, but she can't see past fixing things with surgery and/or money rather than doing her job as a mother and actually raising her child, instead of forcing her child to have surgeries that she wanted as a child, as if they're the same person.
All this could have been fixed, the cycle of trauma could have been broken by just being a parent and instilling confidence in your child, telling them they're beautiful and that beauty isn't everything. When instead she's teaching her child that beauty is EVERYTHING and the ONLY thing that matters as a girl/woman, by being internally misogynistic to herself, her child and other women.
It's heartbreaking, honestly. If only the mother had positive role models in her life, especially growing up, that taught her these things, also.
It’s very frustrating when vice make me Google what the hell a double eyelid is instead of just taking five seconds to explain it at the beginning of this… its so simple.
Perhaps one day where most of the work are virtual and without the need to look on any people's face will this go away. Somehow, I believe the root of this cause is the natural instinct of attention seeking that resulted in this surgical procedure becoming popular or common. I just feel comfortable working with people because of their character instead of their looks.
I mentioned maybe getting subtle lip injections one day and my mom was very upset, I can’t even imagine growing up with a mother like that 🙁 that poor kid is gonna realize how toxic her mom is once she gets older, she was already adorable and her eyelids were perfect as they were, I hope she learns to love herself
I feel very thankful I was born in a family, or my mother was very opposite. She wanted us girls not to grow up just believing in our looks, and when people would complement us on our beauty, she would often times stop them and encourage them to give us compliments on our attributes instead. She taught us that beauty comes from the inside out. Someone can be extremely beautiful on the outside, but hideous on the inside
Honestly, how is this any different than so-called gender reassignment surgery and breast enlargement? They sound awful, but seems like lot safer than those other plastic surgery.
ALL THESE DOCTORS SHOULD LOSE THEIR LICENSE! No matter paying customer or not! If it's not life threatening no go! Have to wait until their 18 or 21 years of age
Round eye?
This is child abuse.
Such a toxic society. I don't understand the obsession with Japan at all.
Try to remember: You may not be "conventionally" good-looking according society's unreal standards (God know I'm not!), but I honestly truly do believe that no matter how you may look, there's 100% at least someone out there who wholeheartedly believes that you are gorgeous to them.
Man it's so easy to forget that for a lot of people out there, just the act of simply trying to navigate growing up can be an absolute nightmare 😔
It's incredibly sad that so many people end up thinking like this, whether due to bullying, personal self-esteem issues, body dysmorphia, etc., sometimes realizing too late that they were beautiful before surgery and now they're stuck with the changes, realizing it but then feeling like now they have no choice but to get more & more surgeries throughout your life, or the worst imo, never realizing that they're beautiful despite getting all the surgeries they have done.
If everyone on earth was "conventionally" gorgeous, our species would be so dreadfully boring to look at.
3 mins in and this feels very dystopian
Omg i really want females to understand that these surgeries will not secure a man for you . If anything when the man realise you’ve done a surgery the only thing that runs through his mind is « she’s fake plastic « so it won’t last
That part at the end was more about the pain meds (opiates probably) than it was about the surgery itself, but yeah. This is sad all around. That one lady is gonna be hideous by the time she reaches old age.
If I was Japanese I would want surgery too
A whole new level of body dysphoria is being developed 😒
WTF !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
How ironic, westerners are having surgery to remove the crease and Asians are doing it to put the crease back in. Imo, these parents need to be in therapy. This was so freaking sad and very difficult to watch.
Or just use tape
I've never understood white people insist on mutilating themselves in pursuit of fake beauty. It's just a waste of money and it makes you look worse than you did before nine out of 10 times. Society has become stupid!
Let kids be kids. This is so sad😢.
Thats so sad .
And everyone trying to be American.
Just imagine a world were every o e looks the same . How horrible will it be ….no more culture and its happening
Obviously a lot of stuff the mother said is absolutely awful and she's clearly instilling awful thoughts into her child which is probably going to affect her a lot, if it isn't already. But when she said "you can't get surgery to fix a bad personality" it really hit me deep because like, no you can't but raising your child right and instilling confidence, kindness e.c.t in them will make sure that isn't an issue, but she can't see past fixing things with surgery and/or money rather than doing her job as a mother and actually raising her child, instead of forcing her child to have surgeries that she wanted as a child, as if they're the same person.
All this could have been fixed, the cycle of trauma could have been broken by just being a parent and instilling confidence in your child, telling them they're beautiful and that beauty isn't everything. When instead she's teaching her child that beauty is EVERYTHING and the ONLY thing that matters as a girl/woman, by being internally misogynistic to herself, her child and other women.
It's heartbreaking, honestly. If only the mother had positive role models in her life, especially growing up, that taught her these things, also.
This is critical. And the surgeons getting rich of this kids have No morals .
It’s very frustrating when vice make me Google what the hell a double eyelid is instead of just taking five seconds to explain it at the beginning of this… its so simple.
The worst person is the surgeons !
If I have a kid with you, and you suggest in earnest that our 9 year-old daughter needs cosmetic surgery, I'm divorcing your ass immediately.
wow, here thought Korean was the one crazy about plastic surgery, yet Japan allow minor todo so 😱😳
The road for an unhappy life.
Sad 😔 world we living
gross
That woman should be in prison…
This mum should be in prison.
One thing its your own body, but c'mon! They're kids!!
Perhaps one day where most of the work are virtual and without the need to look on any people's face will this go away. Somehow, I believe the root of this cause is the natural instinct of attention seeking that resulted in this surgical procedure becoming popular or common. I just feel comfortable working with people because of their character instead of their looks.
How is a 9 yr old legally allowed to have cosmetic procedures??
I mentioned maybe getting subtle lip injections one day and my mom was very upset, I can’t even imagine growing up with a mother like that 🙁 that poor kid is gonna realize how toxic her mom is once she gets older, she was already adorable and her eyelids were perfect as they were, I hope she learns to love herself
I feel very thankful I was born in a family, or my mother was very opposite. She wanted us girls not to grow up just believing in our looks, and when people would complement us on our beauty, she would often times stop them and encourage them to give us compliments on our attributes instead. She taught us that beauty comes from the inside out. Someone can be extremely beautiful on the outside, but hideous on the inside
Honestly, how is this any different than so-called gender reassignment surgery and breast enlargement? They sound awful, but seems like lot safer than those other plastic surgery.
This is sick!
Tragic. I feel so bad for that poor little girl.
If the mom was truely sorry, she wouldn't let her daughter do it in the first place…
This is sooo saaddddd. As a mom …
Oh man this breaks my heart.
But we also need to talk about unnecessary circumcision. Millions of babies/kids get the procedure done without their consent.
This is hard to watch..
And unfortunately its girls mostly … being promoted BY GIRLS/WOMEN in the name of WOMEN EMPOWERMENT
Ya'll should get yourselves some of that other white lightning, some of that real raw firepower, like some of that rocket fuel.
Oh god this has gone to a point of no return, while all the beauty industry stooges make millions
ALL THESE DOCTORS SHOULD LOSE THEIR LICENSE! No matter paying customer or not! If it's not life threatening no go! Have to wait until their 18 or 21 years of age
I can’t even tell the difference… why does it matter?
17:28 who'd want a mom like this?
Is this the new circumcision of westerners??
Different cultures I guess 🤷♂️
This was very upsetting and uncomfortable. But important to share since different cultures have different views.
Still ugly even after, poor woman could never win.